Bulletin September 1, 2013
22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
C
Sirach 3:17-18, 20, 28-29; Hebrews 12: 18-19, 22-24; Luke 14:1,
7-14I always find it ‘difficult’ when a person comes up to me and thanks me for ‘a great sermon’ or a ‘wonderful blog’ or a ‘special counseling session’. I say ‘thank you.’ And so often I add ‘thank God for it was His work.’ My Jesuit Spiritual Director says, ‘Praise God.’ The point is where humility is and how do I exercise it and at the same time be grateful to God for all His gifts? It is uncomfortable to receive praise yet at the same time the affirmation that comes is deeply appreciated and often needed. Today’s readings have a good message for me and for each person who is trying to grow closer to God in honesty, humility and gratitude.
The Book of Sirach is named after its author, Jesus, son of Eleazar, son of Sirach. Its earliest title seems to have been the “Wisdom of the Son of Sirach” and it was also called Ecclesiasticus. This word means “Church Book” because it was used extensively with catechumens and in the early church in presenting good moral teaching. The author lived in Jerusalem and was “thoroughly imbued with love for the law, the priesthood, the temple, and divine worship.” It’s a self help book on how to be ‘of God while living in the world’. (my thoughts). Today’s verses are from chapter three; the first sixteen verses share that ‘”besides the virtues that must characterize our conduct toward God, special duties toward our neighbor are enjoined such as honor and respect toward parents, with corresponding blessings.: (footnote from the Catholic Study Bible). Starting with verse 17 (today’s verse) a beautiful description of how to live in true humility is given. The author emphasizes two points that are so helpful: pride and humility.
Pride—is it about me or is it about God. Paul says so often, ‘name one thing that you have that was not given to you.’ God placed me at this point in history, in this place, surrounding me with people who have helped me form God’s gifts into a way of living. God’s hand has been in every moment and action in my life. Sure I was the one who walked the stage to get the degrees, but God gave me the intelligence, the desire and the ‘pull through efforts’ to get me where I am now. I couldn’t even begin to enumerate the people who have touched me and urged me on especially in the tough times. But these were definitely ‘God sent’; why, because God loves me and does the same to every person.
Humility—Sirach says that the key to greatness is found in humble service to God. He urges his readers and me to put God always first. If they all learn dependence and trust in God, they will find their lives truly blessed. How true that is as I look back on my life. His last line, “Water quenches a flaming fire, and alms atone for sins” means that just as water puts out a fire, generosity atones for sins. Sin is much more destructive to the spiritual life than any fire is to the body. ‘Look what I did...isn’t it great...aren’t I great’. My dad use to say over and over when I was getting too ‘big for my britches’, “some say, ‘I use to be proud but now I don’t have any faults.’”
Jesus continues this teaching on humility at a dinner one of the leading Pharisees had invited Him. It’s an interesting dinner: the other Pharisees are observing Jesus closely and Jesus is observing them and other guests who are trying to upstage each other and maneuver to get the best seats. Jesus’ advice to them was to ‘ease up’ because they may be embarrassed if they are ‘put down’ and told to take a back seat. He says, “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” And then He adds a constant them of Pope Francis: remember the poor...invite the outcasts in society, like the poor and sick. I and each person are called to love even when that love cannot be reciprocated.
Msgr. Eugene Lauer, a wonderful
preacher and spiritual writer gave a good example that helps discover
Jesus’ truth. He says, “Picture
yourself in the following situation in a school yard. There you are,
the popular teacher, the recreation leader, or the parent aide
standing in the middle of a throng of happy children. The most
vivacious and outgoing and beautiful children are on the inner edge
of the circle, vying for a bit of your attention. Naturally you
enjoy their compliments, their smiles and affection.
On the
outer fringe of the group, perhaps not even a part of it at all, is
that heavy-set fifth-grader, bigger than everyone else in his age
group, somewhat slow in school, dull and retiring in personality. He
is never in the ‘in-group.’ You try to say a pleasant word to
him, but really do end up spending most of your time with the more
bright and attractive children. It’s so easy to fall into that.
‘What merit will you have if you love only those who are capable of
the most satisfying and winning responses?’
It is awfully difficult to love
those who are plain and dull, those who are downright bores. Only if
we can be deeply convinced of the divine truth in today’s gospel
will we consider it worth our effort to seek to discover the divine
image in them, to love them with little hope of recompense.”
So I reflect on:
God’s Kingdom turns the rules of the
world upside down:
- God will humble those who think highly of themselves and respect those with a humble attitude.
- Jesus’ law of love has changed the rules for relating to God and one another.
- All the attributes that make one powerful and respected can easily get in the way of a genuine relationship and intimacy with God.
- Anyone who wants to be close to God must be willing to rely totally on God and trust Him.
- How much credit did I give to God for what happened in my life today?
- Is it possible to live according to the standards of the gospel and, at the same time, live by the standards of society? NO...well what is holding me up?
- Do I sometimes want to earn God’s love or feel that I deserve it? Do I ask for forgiveness for this?
- Do I take time, be still, and ask God to tell me how He feels about me? It always has to do with His incredible love. Do I accept this as He gives it?
Jerome J. Sabatowich a religious educator gives this reflection: “A woman dreamt that when she died and went to heaven she was surprised to see some people there whom she considered spiritually inferior. She then noticed that each of these people also looked surprised because, it seems, none of them expected to see her there either. Pray this week that God will teach you how to be humble.”